Which Asian Women Do Black Men Seek The Most?
Aug 27, 2014 22:41:03 GMT -8
Post by Admin on Aug 27, 2014 22:41:03 GMT -8
Asian women are ranked here based on how often black men seek them out, not necessarily which asian women are the best match for black men. The rating is on a scale of 0.0 (least sought after) to 10.0 (most sought after). Some general comments follow each type of asian woman, but these are just general comments and obviously every individual will be unique, so take the comments with a grain of salt.
#1. Japanese = 10.0
Japanese women can also be very beautiful, but many will not focus on beauty as much as Korean women will. Younger and even middle age Japanese women, particularly from the larger Japanese cities can be very into hip hop and urban culture and are generally very open to dating black guys. The Japanese culture can be such a consensus culture that doesn't always value women very highly which causes some Japanese women to try something new with a western guy who will value them more highly. Japanese women tend to be very family oriented and will often make big sacrifices in order for her kids to have a better life. Not creating a loss of face for her husband or her family is a huge deal in Japan and you will almost never see a Japanese women argue with her husband in public, although behind closed doors will be a different matter. Japanese women also tend to like to have the man lead in the relationship and they generally like for a man to be a man. They do not always say what they mean for fear of creating loss of face and you really have to read their body language as well as their verbal language sometimes to piece together their true desire. Education for the children will be paramount. Japanese women are generally committed and loyal and can be a great match for black men if you find the right lady.
#2. Korean women = 9.9
Korean women are generally very beautiful and adopt well to American culture. Korean women are generally very practical and will recognize a good black man when she sees one. Korean's also generally enjoy having a good time and like to live the American dream. On the downside, if they were not raised in the US, sometimes their Korean accents can be fairly heavy, and some FOB Koreans really struggle with English and are actually sometimes afraid to speak English, preferring to just stay in an all Korean environment. The Korean woman standard of beauty is pale white skin and some of them go overboard to try to achieve that look. Korean women tend to be fairly looks conscious which is why there is so much plastic surgery in Korea. Other potential downsides are that Korean women can be very influenced by what other Koreans think and Korean men have a tendency to be cockblockers when they see Korean women with western men, particularly black men. Korean women have no problem taking the lead in the relationship and can be bossy and overly critical in the relationship at times. If you find a Korean woman who is willing to deal with all the pressure she will receive from the Korean community, she will tend to be very loyal and committed to you, very no-nonsense about your relationship, and ride or die to the end with you. Korean women can be great matches for black men if you find the right lady.
#3. Chinese = 9.3
China is a huge country with lots of diversity, so no generalization will cover all Chinese women. China has a mix of beautiful and not so beautiful women with many believing that Chinese women from the northeast provinces are the most beautiful, but clearly there is debate on this topic. Many Chinese women tend to be very traditional and very family oriented, but can also be very achievement oriented, status conscious, materialistic, bossy, and rude. Many Chinese women also tend to be stuck in the "Chinese way" of thinking which essentially is all of their cultural wisdom which has been handed down over the centuries. Even when they live in western countries outside of the influence of China, it is sometimes very difficult for them abandon their "Chinese way". This can create serious culture clashes with the American way or western men as well and Chinese women are not always good at compromising. If you can overcome the culture clash, Chinese women can be ride or die to the end and make great mates, however for the average black man, I think this can be a tall order. While I have seen plenty of black men have short term relationships with Chinese women, I don't see a lot of these relationships last for the long haul. Indeed I have seen Chinese women bail on relationships when the relationship was not compatible with their desire for more achievement, status, money, material goods, or compliance with the "Chinese way". Caution is the key word if you are in a relationship with a Chinese woman.
#4. Indian = 8.6
Despite many Indian women having darker complexions similar to African Americans, do not make the mistake of thinking that Indian women see themselves as or similar to black people. They will be quick to point out that they are Indian and not African or black. Indian women are the least likely to seek non-Indian or western or even black husbands, so it's a little surprising to see black men seeking them out so much. Indians tend to be very status and class conscious and it is only the very recent generation that is able to sometimes select their own mate as even today many times their mate is chosen or heavily influenced by their parents. While Indian women can pair with black men just fine, it is my belief that this will more often than not be a difficult pairing due to the class consciousness and heavy parental influence that most Indian women will experience.
#5. Filipinas = 7.6
Filipinas also run the gamut of being world class beauties on one end to being short and dumpy on the other end. Some Filipinas are among the most beautiful women you will ever meet, however this is obviously not true across the board for many Filipinas. On the positive side, Filipinas probably are the least race conscious about dating black men of all asian women and it just will not be an issue at all for many Filipinas. Many Filipinas tend to be strivers and come from difficult circumstances often, so they know what it is to struggle and claw to just stay ahead sometimes, and they can easily identify with the typical African American experience. True or not, some Filipinas have a reputation for not always being faithful in a relationship and having kids at younger ages - it can be hard to meet younger and middle age Filipinas with no kids. Filipinas also many times expect the man to contribute financially to her extended family, so have this conversation early and set realistic expectations. Money is not always a huge issue for Filipinas as long as you have set clear expectations in advance. With the right Filipina woman, this can be a great match for many black men.
#6. Singaporean = 7.4
Singapore is full of money and luxury. There are more billionaires per capita in Singapore than anywhere else in the world. Hence Singaporean women tend to be very focused on money, materialism, and the good life. In Singapore, expat bankers, of which there are many and other rich expats are in very high demand. Some Singaporean women will only date rich expat men and no one else. If you are a Black rich expat man, you will have no problem in Singapore. If you are anything else, no matter how high quality you might be, you will struggle with Singaporean women. If you can land a Singaporean lady, they tend to be very beautiful, well put together, and highly educated, but make sure she is really attracted to you and not just your success. Also expect that you will have to relocate to Singapore as opposed to her relocating to the west. The quality of life in Singapore is probably higher than in the US and the west in general, so most Singaporeans are very reluctant to move, unlike their Asian counterparts in other parts of Asia. Overall, Singaporean women generally are not a good match for Black men unless you are well off.
#7. Malaysian = 7.3
There are 3 types of Malaysian women - Malay, Malaysian Chinese, and Malaysian Indian. Malays are typically Muslim and unless you are also Muslim, they can not date or marry you unless you convert. Malaysian Indian are similar to their native Indian counterparts and are not generally a good match for Black men. However, Malaysian Chinese are a "China-lite" version of their Chinese counterparts and as such are great matches for Black men. Malaysian Chinese women tend to be much more open minded, progressive, and down to earth than their often close minded native Chinese counterparts. At the same time, they bring many of the positive Chinese characteristics such as beauty, intelligence, being family oriented, and being highly supportive of their man. Overall, generally a good match with Malaysian Chinese for Black men, but not so good a match with Malays or Malaysian Indians.
#8. Vietnamese = 6.8
Vietnamese women tend to be very petite, but very beautiful. They generally are not highly educated, but they are very ambitious and business minded. Unless they grew up in an urban environment with Blacks, when they seek western men, they tend to exclusively seek white men, even though they generally have good chemistry with Black men once they spend time with them. If you meet a Vietnamese woman who is very focused on white men, it's generally best to just move on to the next one as it can take a long time for her to realize that Black men are good for them. If you find a Vietnamese woman who is open to Black men, she will be a real keeper as they are known to be very loyal and generally not as highly sexed as the Filipinas. Finding a Vietnamese woman who is not totally white washed is very difficult, but if you can find an open Vietnamese woman, these rare find women can make a great match for Black men.
#9 Thai = 6.5
Generally not a good match. Very race conscious and often biased against Black men due largely to Thai women worshiping white skin. Not nearly as attractive as their Asian counterparts elsewhere and generally not very faithful. Stick to Thai food which is excellent, not Thai women. More to come later
#10. Taiwanese = 6.5
An ok match. More to come later
#11. Pacific Islander = 4.6
Generally a good match - often overlooked. More to come later
#1. Japanese = 10.0
Japanese women can also be very beautiful, but many will not focus on beauty as much as Korean women will. Younger and even middle age Japanese women, particularly from the larger Japanese cities can be very into hip hop and urban culture and are generally very open to dating black guys. The Japanese culture can be such a consensus culture that doesn't always value women very highly which causes some Japanese women to try something new with a western guy who will value them more highly. Japanese women tend to be very family oriented and will often make big sacrifices in order for her kids to have a better life. Not creating a loss of face for her husband or her family is a huge deal in Japan and you will almost never see a Japanese women argue with her husband in public, although behind closed doors will be a different matter. Japanese women also tend to like to have the man lead in the relationship and they generally like for a man to be a man. They do not always say what they mean for fear of creating loss of face and you really have to read their body language as well as their verbal language sometimes to piece together their true desire. Education for the children will be paramount. Japanese women are generally committed and loyal and can be a great match for black men if you find the right lady.
#2. Korean women = 9.9
Korean women are generally very beautiful and adopt well to American culture. Korean women are generally very practical and will recognize a good black man when she sees one. Korean's also generally enjoy having a good time and like to live the American dream. On the downside, if they were not raised in the US, sometimes their Korean accents can be fairly heavy, and some FOB Koreans really struggle with English and are actually sometimes afraid to speak English, preferring to just stay in an all Korean environment. The Korean woman standard of beauty is pale white skin and some of them go overboard to try to achieve that look. Korean women tend to be fairly looks conscious which is why there is so much plastic surgery in Korea. Other potential downsides are that Korean women can be very influenced by what other Koreans think and Korean men have a tendency to be cockblockers when they see Korean women with western men, particularly black men. Korean women have no problem taking the lead in the relationship and can be bossy and overly critical in the relationship at times. If you find a Korean woman who is willing to deal with all the pressure she will receive from the Korean community, she will tend to be very loyal and committed to you, very no-nonsense about your relationship, and ride or die to the end with you. Korean women can be great matches for black men if you find the right lady.
#3. Chinese = 9.3
China is a huge country with lots of diversity, so no generalization will cover all Chinese women. China has a mix of beautiful and not so beautiful women with many believing that Chinese women from the northeast provinces are the most beautiful, but clearly there is debate on this topic. Many Chinese women tend to be very traditional and very family oriented, but can also be very achievement oriented, status conscious, materialistic, bossy, and rude. Many Chinese women also tend to be stuck in the "Chinese way" of thinking which essentially is all of their cultural wisdom which has been handed down over the centuries. Even when they live in western countries outside of the influence of China, it is sometimes very difficult for them abandon their "Chinese way". This can create serious culture clashes with the American way or western men as well and Chinese women are not always good at compromising. If you can overcome the culture clash, Chinese women can be ride or die to the end and make great mates, however for the average black man, I think this can be a tall order. While I have seen plenty of black men have short term relationships with Chinese women, I don't see a lot of these relationships last for the long haul. Indeed I have seen Chinese women bail on relationships when the relationship was not compatible with their desire for more achievement, status, money, material goods, or compliance with the "Chinese way". Caution is the key word if you are in a relationship with a Chinese woman.
#4. Indian = 8.6
Despite many Indian women having darker complexions similar to African Americans, do not make the mistake of thinking that Indian women see themselves as or similar to black people. They will be quick to point out that they are Indian and not African or black. Indian women are the least likely to seek non-Indian or western or even black husbands, so it's a little surprising to see black men seeking them out so much. Indians tend to be very status and class conscious and it is only the very recent generation that is able to sometimes select their own mate as even today many times their mate is chosen or heavily influenced by their parents. While Indian women can pair with black men just fine, it is my belief that this will more often than not be a difficult pairing due to the class consciousness and heavy parental influence that most Indian women will experience.
#5. Filipinas = 7.6
Filipinas also run the gamut of being world class beauties on one end to being short and dumpy on the other end. Some Filipinas are among the most beautiful women you will ever meet, however this is obviously not true across the board for many Filipinas. On the positive side, Filipinas probably are the least race conscious about dating black men of all asian women and it just will not be an issue at all for many Filipinas. Many Filipinas tend to be strivers and come from difficult circumstances often, so they know what it is to struggle and claw to just stay ahead sometimes, and they can easily identify with the typical African American experience. True or not, some Filipinas have a reputation for not always being faithful in a relationship and having kids at younger ages - it can be hard to meet younger and middle age Filipinas with no kids. Filipinas also many times expect the man to contribute financially to her extended family, so have this conversation early and set realistic expectations. Money is not always a huge issue for Filipinas as long as you have set clear expectations in advance. With the right Filipina woman, this can be a great match for many black men.
#6. Singaporean = 7.4
Singapore is full of money and luxury. There are more billionaires per capita in Singapore than anywhere else in the world. Hence Singaporean women tend to be very focused on money, materialism, and the good life. In Singapore, expat bankers, of which there are many and other rich expats are in very high demand. Some Singaporean women will only date rich expat men and no one else. If you are a Black rich expat man, you will have no problem in Singapore. If you are anything else, no matter how high quality you might be, you will struggle with Singaporean women. If you can land a Singaporean lady, they tend to be very beautiful, well put together, and highly educated, but make sure she is really attracted to you and not just your success. Also expect that you will have to relocate to Singapore as opposed to her relocating to the west. The quality of life in Singapore is probably higher than in the US and the west in general, so most Singaporeans are very reluctant to move, unlike their Asian counterparts in other parts of Asia. Overall, Singaporean women generally are not a good match for Black men unless you are well off.
#7. Malaysian = 7.3
There are 3 types of Malaysian women - Malay, Malaysian Chinese, and Malaysian Indian. Malays are typically Muslim and unless you are also Muslim, they can not date or marry you unless you convert. Malaysian Indian are similar to their native Indian counterparts and are not generally a good match for Black men. However, Malaysian Chinese are a "China-lite" version of their Chinese counterparts and as such are great matches for Black men. Malaysian Chinese women tend to be much more open minded, progressive, and down to earth than their often close minded native Chinese counterparts. At the same time, they bring many of the positive Chinese characteristics such as beauty, intelligence, being family oriented, and being highly supportive of their man. Overall, generally a good match with Malaysian Chinese for Black men, but not so good a match with Malays or Malaysian Indians.
#8. Vietnamese = 6.8
Vietnamese women tend to be very petite, but very beautiful. They generally are not highly educated, but they are very ambitious and business minded. Unless they grew up in an urban environment with Blacks, when they seek western men, they tend to exclusively seek white men, even though they generally have good chemistry with Black men once they spend time with them. If you meet a Vietnamese woman who is very focused on white men, it's generally best to just move on to the next one as it can take a long time for her to realize that Black men are good for them. If you find a Vietnamese woman who is open to Black men, she will be a real keeper as they are known to be very loyal and generally not as highly sexed as the Filipinas. Finding a Vietnamese woman who is not totally white washed is very difficult, but if you can find an open Vietnamese woman, these rare find women can make a great match for Black men.
#9 Thai = 6.5
Generally not a good match. Very race conscious and often biased against Black men due largely to Thai women worshiping white skin. Not nearly as attractive as their Asian counterparts elsewhere and generally not very faithful. Stick to Thai food which is excellent, not Thai women. More to come later
#10. Taiwanese = 6.5
An ok match. More to come later
#11. Pacific Islander = 4.6
Generally a good match - often overlooked. More to come later